Dixie Divas
The Windmill
by Ronda Rich

From the moment I saw it, I though it was the dumbest thing I'd ever seen. I spent 20 years thinking that, too.

"Whatta ya think?" Daddy stepped back, folded his arms across his chest with the look of a satisfied, proud man.

In typical teenager form, I rolled my eyes rudely and sniffed imperiously.

"Daddy, whoever heard of putting an ugly, old windmill in the yard - the front yard - of a modern brick house? It looks awful."

He should have popped me right then and there. But, instead, he turned to me, the smile dripping from his face and sliding to the ground, and said, "Little girl, one day you'll see things differently."

At 15, I couldn't imagine that I'd ever see things the way my daddy did. He was quaire - in the words of his Scotch-Irish people - meaning sometimes peculiar in his ways.

On the day I stepped off the bus and saw my simple minded aunt, her childlike qualities brought on by a fever at three, chasing my toddling niece up the gravel driveway while dodging the cows and their droppings, I wanted Jesus to take me home right then and there.

Aunt Josie's hair stood straight on end as if she had stuck her finger in the light socket and snuff dribbled out of the corner of her mouth and down her chin. I will admit, though, that she had on the cleanest, whitest Keds that I had ever seen.

So by the time that the windmill arrived, I had had enough. Daddy, though, wasn't relenting. He probably thought that repeated humiliation would make me stronger in life. It did.

I didn't know until many years later, that the windmill had been a gift of love to his sweetheart. Mama, boosting his ego, had commented sweetly on a windmill he had added to the farm where he grew up.

"I wish I had one in my yard," she said, not meaning it at all. So, as soon as he could locate another one, Daddy bought a 25-foot tall windmill and plopped it in our yard. What woman would want diamonds when you can have a windmill?

Over the years, I began to have appreciation for the windmill. I saw it as lovely folk art. It is quite majestic with the weathered red blades and the blue tail that spins it around. It's not dumb. It's a unique monument to one man's love for his wife.

Ronda Rich is the bestselling author of What Southern Women Know (That Every Woman Should) and The Town That Came ACourtin'.